“To think of the subject unmans me:” Grief and Soldiering Through the Experience of Henry Livermore Abbott

“To think of the subject unmans me:” Grief and Soldiering Through the Experience of Henry Livermore Abbott

On August 9, 1862, twenty year old Henry Livermore Abbott suffered a great personal tragedy; the death of his beloved older brother, Ned. Writing to his father weeks later, Abbott admitted, “I have had a good many letters about Ned but I can’t answer them. To think of the subject unmans me. I have to keep it from my thoughts.” He struggled to come to terms with this loss, as this was more than the death of a sibling. It was the loss of a comrade killed in battle.

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